Post by Debbie V on Jul 27, 2017 20:53:38 GMT
All the talk recently about setting up a new TG fiction website (with our without blackjack and hookers) got me thinking back to six years ago when I first joined BigCloset, and eleven years (eleven!) when I first contributed to Storysite. When I write those stories in 2006, I never expected anything to come of it- I didn't even expect any comments, and any I did get were a pleasant surprise. The same applied when I uploaded the first part of Charlotte in 2011- back then I didn't even know if I'd write any more chapters of the story (even though I did leave it on a cliffhanger). But then, throughout the following years, I gradually started writing more and more, and as of today, I currently have 142 chapters uploaded to both BC and FM. And yet... I've never really felt like I've belonged.
I guess I am a bit of a hypocrite in ways. I tend to steer away from long, rambling chapters, whilst exclusively writing long, rambling chapters myself (warning: this post will probably be similar). I sometimes leave months between chapters of the same story whilst going to work on others (though I'm trying to rectify that, and It is an effective way of avoiding burnout and/or writer's block) and expect people to be able to pick up from where I left off when my latest chapter eventually does find its way onto the net. I crave comments, and yet I rarely leave them myself. Perhaps this means I deserve to feel the way I do- like I'm a very small fish in a very big pond.
Before I go on, no, this isn't a cry for attention. Well, not an intentional one, anyway. This is me trying to get something off my chest that I've felt for a while. And that's always been a problem for me. I'm 35 years (plus about 18 months) old, for all my life, I've known I was different- but not in the way you might initially think. Sure, I've had transgendered thoughts. On a daily basis. Hourly, sometimes. But I'm so closeted I'm finding Christmas presents for 2030, and I'm likely to stay that way- my one attempt to come out ended in disaster. No, the way I'm 'different' is a little thing called 'autism', and it's messed me up all my life. I was only diagnosed a few years ago, but by then the diagnosis was at most a formality as the symptoms have been there my whole life. Most notably: I have difficulty interacting with others.
It's hardly a coincidence then that this will only be my third post on this board. And like most of what I say, it goes on for ages and has little actual meaning. I'm always happier communicating one to one than to a crowd (real crowd or internet crowd), but I'll make an effort on here. Or at least try, lol. I kinda forgot where I was going with this post. :-)
Debs xxxx
I guess I am a bit of a hypocrite in ways. I tend to steer away from long, rambling chapters, whilst exclusively writing long, rambling chapters myself (warning: this post will probably be similar). I sometimes leave months between chapters of the same story whilst going to work on others (though I'm trying to rectify that, and It is an effective way of avoiding burnout and/or writer's block) and expect people to be able to pick up from where I left off when my latest chapter eventually does find its way onto the net. I crave comments, and yet I rarely leave them myself. Perhaps this means I deserve to feel the way I do- like I'm a very small fish in a very big pond.
Before I go on, no, this isn't a cry for attention. Well, not an intentional one, anyway. This is me trying to get something off my chest that I've felt for a while. And that's always been a problem for me. I'm 35 years (plus about 18 months) old, for all my life, I've known I was different- but not in the way you might initially think. Sure, I've had transgendered thoughts. On a daily basis. Hourly, sometimes. But I'm so closeted I'm finding Christmas presents for 2030, and I'm likely to stay that way- my one attempt to come out ended in disaster. No, the way I'm 'different' is a little thing called 'autism', and it's messed me up all my life. I was only diagnosed a few years ago, but by then the diagnosis was at most a formality as the symptoms have been there my whole life. Most notably: I have difficulty interacting with others.
It's hardly a coincidence then that this will only be my third post on this board. And like most of what I say, it goes on for ages and has little actual meaning. I'm always happier communicating one to one than to a crowd (real crowd or internet crowd), but I'll make an effort on here. Or at least try, lol. I kinda forgot where I was going with this post. :-)
Debs xxxx